When I'm mentoring someone for the first time, The first thing I see are its attributes and how to enhance them, even when i'm around people watching working. I am always looking at the characteristics that impact me in each person: who has light eyes, smooth and glowing skin, long legs, a small waist, hair color. Rather, carefully analyzed their physical traits and personality to accentuate the best of her according to the way of being.
At the same time that I do this exercise, she's telling me about everything she doesn't like about herself; of the areas of your body in which you feel unsure. I had already talked about this before in my article 7 ways to feel good about yourself. We cannot look at the body as parts but as a whole. And although what a person who seeks advice regarding their wardrobe wants is to solve problems, That won't help anything if you don't feel good about yourself. You can put on the outfit that makes you look like a queen and you won't project, because you are thinking about what you do not have, what you don't like.
When you focus on what works, what bothers you goes to the background. This makes you feel more confident with what you wear and raises your self-esteem. This is more or less, follow the advice in a self-help book. If you focus on the good things that happen to you, you are grateful for that., life becomes more joyful and the universe begins to conspire with you.
The same goes for clothes.. By enhancing all your attributes, be grateful for the traits you love about yourself, you stop focusing on what bothers you about your body and your self-confidence begins to grow. Although I usually talk about how to project a good image, which refers to the outside. Everything works better if your interior is strong and if you feel good in your own skin.